Friday 28 November 2014

Icecream at Mornington, Vic

We haven't travelled far from home yet! We decided to stay near Melbourne as Tony's younger brother is getting married & my dad is coming to visit from Switzerland in December & January.
It will e great to spend time with family before we hit the road, or ferry, as the case may be!

At first I wanted to head off straight away, but staying in Mornington has been superb as it has allowed us time to fine tune where we want to pack everything in the van, and making the most of the small space we have, without the need to hurry!
It was a warm night the other night so we ended up taking the children in to Mornington Main Street for icecream. Unsurprisingly there were no complaints!










Our homeschooling method is one of natural learning

Our homeschool method is one of natural learning & this article describes it perfectly!

http://www.home-ed.vic.edu.au/2007/05/04/natural-learning-in-action/

This is the first part of the article that I really resonate with:

"Confession time: Sometimes I get ‘the guilts’ and think I’m not really educating my children at all. This feeling usually creeps in following someone’s wide-eyed response when I tell them that I home educate.

“Wow, I could never do that! You must be so organised!”

The overawed responses vary but the words ‘busy’, ‘dedicated’ ‘organised’ and ‘amazing’ crop up fairly often. My guess is you hear this kind of thing too. And then the guilt sets in because these people have entirely the wrong idea about me. They think that I am a super-organised disciplinarian, planning lessons; conscientiously implementing a study routine; supervising progress; correcting work and so on…

I’m not doing any of that stuff! The fact is that most of the time, I’m doing my own thing whilst the kids do theirs. As the clock ticks over 9.00 a.m. here you won’t find me with the dishes and daily washing and cleaning done ready to supervise the day’s school work. In fact it’s quite likely that I am checking my email in my pajamas whilst the kids are still reading in bed. One of them is almost certainly still asleep.

Sometimes natural learning seems to be ‘doing nothing.’

I think the thing is that following a natural learning lifestyle means that the parental role is so different to that of a teacher that even we home educating parents have trouble seeing and recognising it for what it is sometimes. We don’t appreciate how hard we work to help our children learn because we cease to consider it ‘work’ and just think of it as ‘life’. The truth is that natural learning involves much more than ‘doing nothing’ or letting the kids do whatever they want. On the contrary, parents are very involved in their children’s natural learning. Yes, my children pretty much do what they want as long as they are not causing a problem. But what we natural learners find is that, given the chance to do whatever they wish, children choose many activities and pursuits where learning is incidental (indeed inevitable) and that, as they grow older, children choose to learn more overtly in the direction of their own interests and often pursue those interests to a very high level. The child who is still asleep at 9.00 a.m. has often been writing a story or researching until late into the night.

So what of the parents’ role? No we are not implementing timetables but we are very far from being divorced from the process of learning which is going on in our homes. Encouraging natural learning is very much a facilitator’s role. We teach our children how to find out what they want to know. We answer their questions as toddlers and, as they grow older, we show them how to use the index of books, the library catalogue system and the internet but none of this is done in lesson form. It is just ‘taught’ naturally as the need arises. We search high and low for books that will appeal to them – both fiction and non-fiction. We take them to clubs, exhibitions, festivals, sports and activities that will interest them. We stock up on resources – books, art materials, writing materials, board games and so on. We provide the time and the freedom for them to develop their imaginations through long imaginative games. We display their models and artwork. In short, we help them in thousands of ways to actively pursue any interest they have.

We are also the sounding board for many of their ideas, thoughts and imaginary games. We take their opinions seriously. We thoughtfully read everything they write, even their first faltering attempts which we may also join with them in laughing at years later. We comment, correct or proofread as requested. We are the audience for their lounge-room concerts and sit through hours of recitals of their made-up songs and poetry. We preview books that we think might appeal to them. We read everything they recommend and talk to them about what they read. We type up their stories. We help them make signs and props for their games. Sometimes we purchase what we or they can not make – e.g. play money for their shopping games. We make time to explain concepts when requested and to demonstrate skills they wish to pick up. We frequently drop what we are doing in order to respond to their interests, their questions and their pursuit of knowledge. In fact we honour their quest for knowledge and help them to see how important it is.

We have no structure in a school sense but in a very real sense our whole lives are structured to aid, assist and encourage our children to learn and to love learning. ..."

Sunday 23 November 2014

Setting up our van. Aahhhh the simple life!

We have spent this week driving back and forth collecting everything we want to take in the van, re-sorting it, giving some more items to charity that we won't fit (& as aren't essentials), and bringing the rest to the van. Then we go through each bag or box and decide where to store everything so that we leave room for the rest of our things and so everything is in a spot that makes practical sense & the most efficient use of space! This process has actually taken longer than we expected and is quite tiring - more than we'd imagined as things have moved spots a number of times already! - but it feels so good "moving" into our new home on wheels & putting our belongings in/away makes it feel warm and inviting! And it is exciting because this is all we will be living with, indefinitely! ..aahhhh, the simple life! 


Thursday 20 November 2014

Day 4 - A photo of our tug & home on wheels!

This is where we'll be living! Now that we are over the hurdle of our first night, are filling all the cupboards with our belongings and the beds are all made with our linen from our old house, it feels more like our home. We are loving having so much time outside and enjoying the fresh air!

Tuesday 18 November 2014

Breastfeeding our 19mo prevented a potential tragedy!

Not the start we had anticipated in our first night in our caravan...
Whilst putting the children to bed I noticed that the brackets for the middle bunk above Luca and I weren't screwed in and were bending with the best part of 20kg of Oliver (our 4yo) on it, despite it being rated to 70kg! After immediately calling Tony & getting Oliver off the bed before Luca and I got crushed, we set up the dinette bed for him to sleep on. 
I didn't get to sleep until close to 1am, I think awake with the adrenalin of considering that had I not climbed in that bottom bunk and seen the potential catastrophe, that Luca could have been killed had the bunk fallen on top of him! It is a parent's instinct to protect their children and I was so angry and upset about the situation! 
But ultimately I have to look at the positive and nobody was hurt. Yes, the work done to install the bunk should never have been slapped together like that, but there is a reason I am still breastfeeding our 19mo to sleep! ..ultimately it might have saved his life or prevented critical injuries!

Monday 17 November 2014

Exciting day ahead - stay tuned!

The car is packed (to the brim)!! 

I am glad we don't have a bigger car or we'd taking more "stuff"! It's amazing how little we actually need!  Big day ahead!! ..stay tuned!

Thursday 13 November 2014

One more sleep & just a few more boxes to go!

One more sleep to go!
 The couches have gone & only a few toys left
we are sleeping on mattresses on the floor
no kitchen table
  All the cupboards are empty, so this is all we have left to pack up in the kitchen
Our room, nearly done!
 Sleeping on the floor
Study is empty
  The last few items have migrated to the rumpus room
We sold our washing machine & dryer so have been doing our washing at the laundromat in Monbulk & hanging clothes outside & on the curtain rails to dry!
 The skip bin full to the brim! - I am pretty proud at how much we got to give away that was in perfect working order, including four full car loads to the charity shop & so next to nothing was thrown away that was in good working order!
 The couch was picked up today
The wardrobes are empty
  No fridge
All the food is packed!


And so in the morning, we will take our tv unit to the charity shop, drop off the kid's mattresses to be stored, give the house a final clean, and then it will be time to say goodbye!

I am really excited, but this feels so surreal tonight! Maybe that will change when I wake up in the morning, ...or after a couple of weeks of rest, in Mornington!

Wednesday 12 November 2014

Small update


I decided to simplify the log layout so it is easier for the website to open if on a slow connection - which may be the case once we hit the road!
I have also added the option to follow the blog over there on the right -->, so please do!

Two more sleeps to go until we hand our house keys over & five more sleeps until we pick up our caravan!! Eeeeeeeee can't wait!  I shall blog again properly over the weekend once we have moved and have sighed a big sigh of relief that the stress of moving (for this part at any rate), is over.

Friday 7 November 2014

Our life in boxes

And so we packed just about all of our possessions into a hire truck and filled a small storage unit!

Then we had a day off to celebrate our two eldest's birthdays (4 & 6 - how time flies when you're having fun!)!

Now to finish packing the rest of the house, which is a much slower process than we imagined, with three children in the house! And we even accounted for it taking longer to allow us time to spend with the kids, but it wasn't enough!! It's going to be a busy week! 7 days to go until we hand over the keys!